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The Fountain of Youth is Made of Iron
Aerobic exercise (walking, jogging, bike riding and such) has long been the darling of the wellness folks.  For years, these people wouldn’t consider lifting weights.  They somehow thought they’d morph into a bodybuilding freak if they so much as touched a dumbbell.
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<p>The Fountain of Youth is Made of Iron</p>
<p>Aerobic exercise (walking, jogging, bike riding and such) has long been the darling of the wellness folks.  For years, these people wouldn’t consider lifting weights.  They somehow thought they’d morph into a bodybuilding freak if they so much as touched a dumbbell.</p>
<p>As if…</p>
<p>They also didn’t think that muscle mass and strength had much to do with health.  More and more evidence shows the error in that way of thinking.  A recent long-term study reported in the British Medical Journal adds to this body of evidence.</p>
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<p>In this study, researchers followed 8,762 men between the ages of 20 and 82 years of age for an average of 18.9 years (as I said, this was a long-term study).</p>
<p>When the men signed up for the study, their comprehensive evaluation included measuring upper and lower body strength as well as their performance on a treadmill.</p>
<p>Adjusting for age, the risk of death during course of the study was highest in the weakest men and lowest in the strongest.  This difference persisted even when other factors such as lifestyle, family history and other medical conditions were allowed for.</p>
<p>The difference persisted even allowing for cardiovascular fitness.  That is, the men who were both aerobically fit and strong did better than men who were equally fit aerobically but not as strong.</p>
<p>This ties in with a lot of other evidence supporting the importance of strength training.</p>
<p>It used to be taught that losing muscle mass and strength was an inevitable part of aging.  We now know this isn’t the case at all.</p>
<p>Training with weights minimizes the strength loss that would otherwise occur.  Studies show resistance training benefits even nursing home residents.</p>
<p>The image of an ideal exercise program has shifted dramatically in the last decade.  Gone are the long hours of repetitive aerobic exercise sessions at 60-80% of maximal heart rate.</p>
<p>The new model rests on shorter, more intense, and highly varied exercise periods.  It definitely includes resistance training.</p>
<p>Body weight exercises such as squats and pushups are a great beginning.  There are lots of strength building programs you can try.  The main thing is to begin.  The “use it or lose it” maxim definitely applies to muscle mass and strength.</p>
<p>references</p>
<p>BMJ. 2008; 337:a349
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		<title>How to Use Action and the Law of Attraction to Make Your Dreams Real</title>
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How to Use Action and the Law of Attraction to Make Your Dreams Real
To get something done, generally you’re going to have to do something.
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<p>How to Use Action and the Law of Attraction to Make Your Dreams Real<br />
To get something done, generally you’re going to have to do something.</p>
<p>Pretty obvious, right?  It should be, but these days a lot of people have interpreted the Law of Attraction to mean that dreaming alone is all that is required to make those dreams a reality.</p>
<p>Not in this physical world.  Bringing a dream to physical reality requires some form of action.</p>
<p>All creation begins first as an idea in someone’s head.  Then action makes it real.</p>
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<p>For example, an engineer may get an idea for a fantastic new style of bridge.  He sees it in his minds eye, but it’s not yet real.  Making it so requires action.</p>
<p>The engineer needs to translate the idea to paper (or these days a computer screen).  Perhaps there’ll be discussions with colleagues, review of material manuals, construction of models and so forth.  All of these are actions.</p>
<p>With each action, the engineer adds more energy to the project.  The bridge begins to move from the world of ideas and dreams to the realm of the physical.</p>
<p>Eventually, completion of the bridge becomes the next logical step.</p>
<p>The dream was important, but its manifestation came through action.</p>
<p>I think action works through two mechanisms.</p>
<p>First, it gets something done in the physical world, and small results add up.  As the proverb goes: “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”.</p>
<p>More importantly, taking action convinces your subconscious mind that you’re serious.  Action primes the subconscious to bring opportunities related to your dream to your conscious attention.</p>
<p>This is what Goethe alludes to when he says:<br />
&#8220;Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thoreau says much the same thing:</p>
<p>“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”</p>
<p>The first time I clearly experienced this was in my final year of medical school.</p>
<p>Fourth year medical students have several months of elective courses.  If you followed certain guidelines, you have wide leeway in arranging the elective you take, including taking one at another medical school.</p>
<p>Most of my classmates took the path of least resistance.  They took an elective offered at our medical school.</p>
<p>Others took electives at the institutions they wanted to apply to for their residencies, hoping to increase their chance of acceptance.</p>
<p>My roommate and I went a different route.</p>
<p>We did our elective at Johannesburg Non-European Hospital in South Africa.  It was a fabulous, fabulous experience.  It was medically excellent and politically eye-opening  (apartheid was in full swing at the time).  We grew in many ways during our time there.</p>
<p>At the end of the year, when everyone had completed their electives and we were all comparing notes, Joe (my roommate) and I encountered several different reactions.</p>
<p>Many were glad for us.  They may have had no desire to do what we did but enjoyed the fact that we had done it.</p>
<p>Others had a response that bordered on jealousy with a twinge of resentment tossed in.</p>
<p>These students made different choices and had different experiences.  Most had gone the easy route and done an elective at our school</p>
<p>When they heard where we had gone, what we saw, how we grew, what we learned, they realized what an opportunity the elective time had been.  They regretted not taking full advantage of it.</p>
<p>In response, they made excuses for why they didn’t do something more adventurous.  Often, their internal story involved Joe and I having some special connection that made it easier for us than it was for anyone else.</p>
<p>“You sure are lucky.”</p>
<p>“Wish I knew who you know.”</p>
<p>“Wish I had the money.”</p>
<p>“I was going to do something like that too, but I couldn’t because…”</p>
<p>The people that were jealous chose to think we were able to do it because we had of some special access or knowledge or grace or ability or whatever that they didn’t have access to.</p>
<p>I knew differently.  I knew that the only reason we completed our trip was that we dreamed.  Then we took action.</p>
<p>It began in junior year.  My roommate was on medical rotation with a Chief Resident from South Africa.  Many times on rounds, the resident told stories about a professor he studied with in South Africa.</p>
<p>My roommate repeated these stories to me and over time Professor Seftel grew to mythic proportions.   Gradually the idea of doing an elective with this professor was born.</p>
<p>Making this elective a reality was a big dream.  It didn&#8217;t exist.  No one had done it before.</p>
<p>Remember, this was way before the internet. Making arrangements between Washington, DC and South Africa was an affair of letters.  Write to enquire, send it off, wait for a response, send more information, get forms, send back, etc.</p>
<p>Looking at the whole process was daunting.  But writing the first letter was easy. (“Dear Professor Seftel, I’m a medical student at Georgetown University School of Medicine and I’m writing to ask if …).</p>
<p>Each subsequent step of a rather involved process (applications, department approvals, visas, figuring out how to pay for it, finding someplace to live, etc.) was also small in itself.</p>
<p>A logical sequence unfolded.  Eventually, the small steps accomplished a great goal.  The dream became real.</p>
<p>The dream was important, but so was the action.</p>
<p>Goal setting, vision boards, visualization, etc. are all important and useful.  And it is true that sometimes someone will put a list of goals away, forget about it, then years later come across it and realize that they had achieved the items on their list without consciously thinking of them.  In fact, that’s happened to me.</p>
<p>But you’ll always find that action was necessary.  Ideally the action flows from spontaneous inclination rather than a sense of trying to force something to happen.</p>
<p>I differentiate between forced action and what Jerry and Esther Hicks call “inspired action”.</p>
<p>When we set a goal or identify a desire, we generate energy around it.  We’ve cued our subconscious to notice things relating to it.</p>
<p>The trick now is to keep a relaxed attitude, not one of effort or struggle or forcing, and notice what arises.</p>
<p>Playing around with the idea in an open-minded, wondering way often brings forth an idea for action.  This is the inspired action.</p>
<p>You recognize an inspired action because you’re drawn to it.  You want to do it.  Often it seems easy, or at least the effort required inspires rater than discourages.</p>
<p>All this, of course, is easier to talk about than to do.  And it’s easier to do when the issues don’t feel major.</p>
<p>When the issue seems important, our desire for the outcome can make us feel anxious.  We may worry about the possibility of not getting what we want.  These feelings works against us.  It leads us away from inspired action to forced action.</p>
<p>My best advice is to keep your focus clearly on what you want, not what you don’t want.  Dream your dreams.</p>
<p>Then, when you feel a call for action, do it!
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 14:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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It doesn’t take a fancy study to realize there’s an epidemic of childhood obesity in this country – a drive past any school yard offers proof enough.  The question is what we do about it?  A new study offers some suggestions.

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<p>It doesn’t take a fancy study to realize there’s an epidemic of childhood obesity in this country – a drive past any school yard offers proof enough.  The question is what we do about it?  A new study offers some suggestions.</p>
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<p>Researchers in Massachusetts evaluated infants three times between the ages of six months and two. (1) At each visit, they recorded the amount of time the child slept and the amount of time they spent watching TV.</p>
<p>At three years of age, they evaluated the children for obesity, measuring body weight and height as well as skin fold thicknesses.  The findings are noteworthy.</p>
<p>Infants who slept less than 12 hours were almost twice as likely to be overweight at age 3 (12% vs. 7%).  If the low-sleep children also watched more than 2 hours of television a day, their risk of obesity rose to 17%.</p>
<p>Many factors contribute to the rise of obesity in America.  Of course diet and exercise are important but research increasingly points to other issues as well.</p>
<p>Previous studies have shown an association between short sleeping hours and obesity in older children and adolescents (2).  This study shows that association begins even in infancy.</p>
<p>Experts debate about the mechanism by which sleep affects weight.  Some researchers postulate that being awake longer simply gives a child more time to eat.  Another possibility is that decreased sleep leads to decreased activity while awake.</p>
<p>Others wonder if certain studies in adults apply to children as well.  These studies show that lack of sleep has an adverse effect on hormones that influence appetite. (3, 4)</p>
<p>Whatever the cause, more and more evidence demonstrates the importance of adequate sleep for people of any age.  Make getting adequate sleep a priority – both for yourself and for any children under your care.</p>
<p>1) Short Sleep Duration in Infancy and Risk of Childhood Overweight<br />
Taveras, Elsie M MD, MPH et al.  Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med. 2008;162(4):305-311.</p>
<p>2) Seicean A, Redline S, Seicean S; et al. Association between short sleeping hours and overweight in adolescents: results from a US Suburban High School survey. Sleep Breath. 2007;11(4):285-293.</p>
<p>3) Spiegel K, et al. Brief communication: sleep curtailment in healthy young men is associated with decreased leptin levels, elevated ghrelin levels, and increased hunger and appetite. Ann Intern Med. 2004;141(11):846-850.</p>
<p>4) Taheri S, Lin L, Austin D, Young T, Mignot E. Short sleep duration is associated with reduced leptin, elevated ghrelin, and increased body mass index. PLoS Med. doi:10.1371/journal.pmed.0010062. 2004;1(3):e62.
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		<title>The Visualization Everyone Does - Even If They Don&#8217;t Believe In Visualization</title>
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Even if you don’t believe in visualization, I’ll bet you practice at least one form of it sometimes.
Most people have heard of visualization – clearly imagining a desired outcome.  Many people use it hoping to increase their chance of success.
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<p>Even if you don’t believe in visualization, I’ll bet you practice at least one form of it sometimes.</p>
<p>Most people have heard of visualization – clearly imagining a desired outcome.  Many people use it hoping to increase their chance of success.</p>
<p>Other people consider visualization New Age fluff.  They deride those who recommend it.</p>
<p>However, even though they scoff, they’re often dedicated practitioners of a specific form of visualization.</p>
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<p>In this form, they dwell on an outcome to the point of obsession. They imagine in such detail that they actually experience emotions and shift their physiology.</p>
<p>In fact, this form of visualization may be the most commonly applied.  The only problem with it is that it focuses on negative outcomes.  It’s usually goes by its common name: worry.</p>
<p>Think about it.  Worry is really just a form of negative visualization.</p>
<p>A person worries by vividly imagining an undesired outcome.</p>
<p>People say they can’t visualize, but they have no difficulty worrying.  With no coaching at all, they’re able to conjure up vivid images of the feared event or outcome.  They have no trouble enhancing the images with gruesome details of any possible negative consequence.</p>
<p>Some people are really quite creative as they do this.</p>
<p>Asking the same person to imagine a positive outcome stymies them.</p>
<p>It’s ironic that master worriers often dismiss positive visualization as New Age fluff.  Then they visualize away, only they specialize in the negative.</p>
<p>I’m not quite sure why they consider negative visualization (worry) a responsible, mature use of their time yet denigrate the positive version of the same activity.</p>
<p>In reality, most awful things people worry about never happen.  As Mark Twain expressed it:  “I’ve experienced many terrible things in my life, most of which have fortunately never occurred.”</p>
<p>Vividly imagine something and you do experience it.  Not only that, you might be charting your future.</p>
<p>Athletes know this.  They use visualization to imagine their success – whether it’s a perfect golf shot or a personal record in a race.</p>
<p>I’ve found it useful to prepare for performing surgery.  When I performed major operations, I mentally rehearsed them the night before.  I imagined making the incision and obtaining exposure.  I’d mentally go through the technical aspects in precise detail.  I imagined difficulties I might face or anatomic variations I might encounter.  Then I imagined how I would handle them.  Naturally, I imagined a very successful outcome.</p>
<p>Maybe it was only superstition, but I always thought the operations went better when I did that.</p>
<p>However, there’s a proven added bonus for spending your time imaging positive outcomes.  It makes you happy. (1)</p>
<p>Worry, on the other hand, accomplishes no good.</p>
<p>Now, I’m not talking about evaluating a grim situation to decide what action is most appropriate. That’s responsible and appropriate.</p>
<p>By worry, I mean repeatedly dwelling on grim outcomes when no action is possible.  Worry itself won’t resolve the situation.  It only makes you miserable.</p>
<p>For example, worrying about your teenager driver won’t get them home safely any sooner.</p>
<p>What worry does do is poison your present moment.   You imagine now, in the present.  If you think disturbing, negative thoughts, you’re making a choice that leads you to suffer in this moment.  You aren’t experiencing where you are and what’s actually happening now.  Instead, you’re experiencing what might (or might not) happen in the future.</p>
<p>Not only that, but worrisome thoughts and emotions drive your body to release hormones associated with stress.  Over time, this has a very detrimental effect on your wellbeing.</p>
<p>Some people become habitual worriers.  For them, it may be difficult to stop.  I’ll give some specific advice on how to deal with habitual worry in the future.  For now, know that it is possible to change.</p>
<p>A good start is to imagine positive outcomes for a change.  You can do it for task specific events, such as my examples before of athletes or my preparing for surgery.</p>
<p>But why not do it just for fun?</p>
<p>As children, we daydreamed naturally.  We easily imagined joyfully.  As we grew, most of us daydreamed less and worried more.</p>
<p>There’s no need to go into why we changed.  It’s enough to know that as mature people taking responsibility for our lives we are in control.  We may have unconsciously drifted into patterns of thought that didn’t serve us.  Now that we recognize what’s going on, we’re back in charge. We can choose how we use our mind and to what end we direct our mental energies.</p>
<p>1)  King;  Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin 27: 798-807
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 21:22:48 +0000</pubDate>
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“It’s not what you get that matters, it’s who you become.”
My appreciation of the wisdom of that statement has grown over the years. Most recently, I thought of it while I was getting my hair cut.
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<p>“It’s not what you get that matters, it’s who you become.”<br />
My appreciation of the wisdom of that statement has grown over the years. Most recently, I thought of it while I was getting my hair cut.</p>
<p>I go to a one-person shop in the village close to where I live (we actually do refer to it as the village, quaint as that may sound to some).  The woman who cuts my hair rents a cute, small free-standing building behind the inn on the main street.  The patisserie that bakes for the inn is right across the brick driveway.  It’s a nice location.</p>
<p>When I was there earlier this week, she told me that she was thinking of expanding her business and hiring two talented women who wanted to work with her.  She wasn’t worried about the hair cutting part, but about the management part.</p>
<p>She realized, as the book “The E-Myth” points out, that being able to run a business is different than being able to do the work of the business.  That is, just because you’re a good electrician doesn’t mean you’ll be good at running an electrical contracting business.</p>
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<p>This woman realizes that she will need to develop new skills if her venture is to be successful. She will need to grow and become more.</p>
<p>If the expansion succeeds, she will probably earn more.  More importantly she will have added the ability to run a larger small business to her already significant list of talents and abilities.</p>
<p>With her new skill set, new opportunities will open to her.  For example, she would be much more comfortable starting again elsewhere.  Also, she’d be more qualified to start a business in a different field.  After expanding herself, she could act as a consultant and advisor for others wishing to do the same.</p>
<p>In short, the most important benefit from expanding her business is that it helps her expand as a person.  The benefit isn’t what she would get, it’s who she would become.</p>
<p>We all can continue to grow and become more throughout life.</p>
<p>Maybe the most important question one can consider before engaging in an activity or relationship or making a career decision is who you are likely to become as a result of it.</p>
<p>Ask who you will become from all vantage points.  What type of values will you develop? What skills will you acquire?  What new ways of thinking will you be exposed to?  What habits of thought and action will you develop? What quality contribution will you be able to make?  What mentors will you learn from?</p>
<p>In choosing a career, the answers to these questions are much more important than the salary or the job title.</p>
<p>Ultimately, becoming a person of quality delivers much more satisfaction that merely becoming a person of material accumulation.  The combination is desirable – there’s nothing wrong with material aspirations as long as they don’t supplant more profound values – but personal integrity proves more enduring than a bank account.</p>
<p>Ultimately, who you’ve become is what you’re left with at the end of life.</p>
<p>Material things decay. You can lose them. Someone can take them from you.</p>
<p>Friends or family may die or otherwise leave you.</p>
<p>Who you’ve become can never be lost, never be taken – it’s truly yours.</p>
<p>As you may know, I like the metaphor of living life as if it’s a work of art in progress.  Taking active control of who you’re becoming is part of creating a masterpiece.
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 18:10:19 +0000</pubDate>
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 A Modest Proposal That May Shock You
Here’s a two-week experiment to help you clear your mind of distorted perceptions.  As a bonus, you’ll find yourself happier.
We all like to think that we have an accurate worldview.  Most of the time, we’re wrong – we have a distorted view of the world around us.
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<p> A Modest Proposal That May Shock You</p>
<p>Here’s a two-week experiment to help you clear your mind of distorted perceptions.  As a bonus, you’ll find yourself happier.</p>
<p>We all like to think that we have an accurate worldview.  Most of the time, we’re wrong – we have a distorted view of the world around us.</p>
<p>A large part of this distortion occurs because we’re careless about what we let affect our internal filters. </p>
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<p>You notice what you’re interested in.  Your perceptions tend to support your pre-existing beliefs.  You can sift through the external world and find evidence to back up just about any belief you want.</p>
<p>For example, can you recall, from your own personal experience, events to support the belief that people are shallow, self-centered, and mean and will stab you in the back if you give them half a chance?  I imagine that you can.</p>
<p>However, I also imagine that you can recall, again from your own experience, events to support the belief that people are kind, generous, and supportive and often go out of their way to help others.</p>
<p>Evidence exists for either belief.  Which you notice and remember depends in part on what you are primed to notice.</p>
<p>A person with a pre-existing belief tends to notice events supporting that belief.  They’re blind to equally valid evidence of the opposite viewpoint.</p>
<p>In a way, it’s the same as noticing all the blue Ford cars on the road the day after you buy one yourself.</p>
<p>We have control over our beliefs and our filters, but only if we actively exert that control.  If we don’t take control, outside influences will do it for us.</p>
<p>The news media constitutes one such outside influence.  It consistently and persistently presents a very selective and distorted worldview.  If we follow the media regularly, we’re at great risk of assuming this distorted perspective as our own.</p>
<p>I remember teachers in high school declaring that good citizens should follow the news media to “stay abreast of the world around us”.  That was lousy advice.</p>
<p>The news media, God bless it, doesn’t exist as a public service.  Their primary mission is not to inform and educate.  It does not give us a balanced view of the good and the bad in the world.  If it did, good news would hugely dominate.</p>
<p>Zzzzip.</p>
<p>“What was that?”</p>
<p>“Oh, that was just the bad news for the year.”</p>
<p>The media doesn’t strive for balance.  The media’s overarching drive is to attract viewers or readers.</p>
<p>To that end, the media picks its stories based on their sensationalism, their likelihood of getting attention.  The saying in the newsroom is “If it bleeds, it leads”.</p>
<p>Most news stories convey little or no information you need to know or that you’ll be able to take action on.</p>
<p>For example, I used to have my clock radio set to go off with the radio rather than an alarm.  As often as not, I’d wake up to the top-of–the-hour news summaries.  Awful. </p>
<p>One morning, in the horrifying few seconds it took me to rouse enough to push the off button, I heard about a serious school bus accident in Europe, a child in Texas that died because his mother left him in a car on a hot day and a soldier who was killed on his way back to base by someone throwing a cinder block off an overpass.</p>
<p>Consider those stories.  Yes, they’re true, they happened.  But what do they have to do with my life?  Is there some action I can take about any of them?  Is the information useful?  Of course not. </p>
<p>The wire service this radio station subscribed to scoured the globe looking for the most sensational, headline-grabbing stories they could find.  They weren’t interested in accurately representing the overall state of the world. They just wanted to get people’s attention. These were the most sensational stories they could find and they foisted them onto me<br />
As a result, I began my day with my mind filled with horrible images.  They were remarkably hard to shake.</p>
<p>How do you think hearing those stories might have affected my internal filters and my thoughts about the world we live in?  Rather badly, obviously.</p>
<p>Filters based on those stories would be extremely inaccurate.<br />
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Yes, there was a school bus accident.  It’s also true that every day, year in and year out, tens of thousands of school buses safely convey millions of students between their homes and school.  Also, maternal love, care and nurturing expressed all over the globe daily far outweighs the rare episodes of maternal neglect that make the headlines.</p>
<p>If you let the news media decide what stories enter your experience, you’ll be seeing the world through a very distorted set of filters.</p>
<p>So here’s my modest proposal.  Drop the media.  Fire them. </p>
<p>You don’t have to do it forever.  Just as a trial, say for two weeks.</p>
<p>For two weeks, I’d like you to avoid any media news sources.  That means no radio, no CNN, no news blogs, no news magazines – none of it.</p>
<p>The point is to just notice what you notice.</p>
<p>You might experience a change in the way you feel.  Your outlook may shift.  You may find yourself more engaged in the world immediately around you.  If you’re not distracted by news about mud slides in California, you’re more likely to appreciate the beautiful weather that’s your experience.</p>
<p>Some people find this experiment difficult because they’ve established a habit of checking the news.  That means it’s even more important for them to try it.</p>
<p>Others worry that they’ll miss something important.  They don’t need to.  If something truly important happens, someone will tell them.  Here’s how that goes.</p>
<p>We all remember where we were when we heard of the attack on the World Trade Center. I was in middle of an operation on a man’s carotid artery. </p>
<p>An OR nurse not involved with the case came to the operating room to tell us about the first plane going into the World Trade Center. </p>
<p>Then she felt the need to come back with updates.</p>
<p>After about the third news flash, I rather sharply told her to stay the hell out of my operating room.  I had the major artery to one side of a man’s brain opened and I needed to have my attention and the attention of everyone in the room completely focused on the job at hand.</p>
<p>Even important stories can have low priority in your personal world.</p>
<p>This news fast is only an experiment. It’s just something to try.  I want you to experience the quality of your life with and without the news media in it.  If you think the media really helps you and you’re better off with it, great – go back to following it.  I think you won’t want to.</p>
<p>But you won’t know for sure unless you try the experiment.</p>
<p>One more story.  Most of the things we think are so important in the present moment turn out to be completely irrelevant in the very near future.  Watching a movie recently brought this point home to me.</p>
<p>“Dave” is a pleasant romantic comedy.  In it, Kevin Klein plays a man who looks amazingly like the president of the United States.  In a plot twist typical of romantic comedies, he winds up standing in for the president (hey – it might happen). </p>
<p>If you enjoy light comedies, I recommend the movie. I gave it 4 out of 5 stars on Netflix.</p>
<p>I mention it here because it was filmed in 1993.  Because of its political theme, the movie had a cute little twist of major politicians and news reporters doing cameo appearances as themselves.  These folks were the movers and shakers of the time.</p>
<p>What struck me as I watched it was how forgotten most of them are now. </p>
<p>You may remember “Tip” O’Neal, but even his performance on the national stage has become a footnote.  His contemporaries’ roles have faded even more.</p>
<p>This suggests to me that time spent following the soap opera that was politics of the early 90’s might not have been the best investment of one’s time and attention. </p>
<p>I think we’ll feel the same someday soon about the big stories of today.</p>
<p>So try this little experiment.  I think you’ll find your world a better place and your view of it much clearer.</p>
<p> I&#8217;d love to hear your results.  Email me at <a href="mailto:jsphfm-jfm@yahoo.com">jsphfm-jfm@yahoo.com</a>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 13:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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I want to tell you about the single best fitness website I’ve found (and I’ve checked out a lot of them). 
This site provides detailed instruction on how to reach levels of fitness you never dreamed of.  The workouts are short yet extremely effective.
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<p>I want to tell you about the single best fitness website I’ve found (and I’ve checked out a lot of them). </p>
<p>This site provides detailed instruction on how to reach levels of fitness you never dreamed of.  The workouts are short yet extremely effective.</p>
<p>I’ve exercised regularly and used a lot of different methods over the years.  I’ve made more progress on this program than I have on any other, bar none.  If I can do it, you can do even better.</p>
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<p>I’m 59 years old.  I rowed crew in college, and aside from the first two years of my surgical residency, I’ve never gone longer than three months without doing some form of exercise.  I try to practice what I preach.</p>
<p>I’ve educated myself pretty well about exercise physiology.  Even using that knowledge as best I could, over the last decade I’ve found myself working harder for poorer results.  I had pretty much resigned myself to accepting that as a “man of experience” (not wanting to say old man) I would be doing well to maintain what strength and fitness I had and shouldn’t be looking to make any gains.</p>
<p>Then I found the program I’ll refer you to here.  It changed my thinking..</p>
<p>My son is 20 years old.  We have a gym set up in the garage – a pull up bar and some weights.  This past summer a bunch of his buddies were over working out.  I walked by, taking the garbage out, and, as young men are wont to do, they taunted me to join in. </p>
<p>They were doing rounds of weighted pull ups.  That is, pull ups with a weight strapped to your waist.  It was a bit of a competition. </p>
<p>A guy would do a pull up with weight and then the rest would see if they could handle it.  Then weight was added for the next round.  When you reached a weight you couldn’t handle, you had to take it off for your next set and put it back on for the guys who were still going strong.</p>
<p>A couple of years ago, I would have been hard pressed to do a single pull up, weight or no weight.  I don’t think Jon’s friends expected me to accept their challenge. But I’d been following the recommendations of this web site for a while by that time.  I accepted.</p>
<p>It felt good to hold my own with those young bucks.  Sensing my son’s pride in his father felt even better.</p>
<p>I should expand my opening statement.  This isn’t just a fitness website, it‘s the best fitness philosophy and program I’ve come across.</p>
<p>And it costs nothing.  It’s almost hard to find something to buy on the site.  Really, their only product is a $25/year subscription to their ezine.  It’s well worth the $25, but you don’t have to spend a penny to gain a fantastic amount of information.</p>
<p>What a wonderful world we live in that this level of instruction is freely given.</p>
<p>I’ll give you the web address in a moment.  First, I want to tell you why I like this program.  Also, this program isn’t for everybody.  It is intense and if not approached prudently, it does have the potential to be dangerous.</p>
<p>Here are a few reasons why I like this program.<br />
• It develops all aspects of fitness.  More on that below.<br />
• It develops practical fitness, fitness that you can use in your daily life.  For example, my family and I were traveling in Italy when we got stranded by an unannounced train strike (apparently such things happen with some regularity in Italy, most often on Friday afternoons).  To get from the train station to the bus station people had to walk across a series of outdoor bridges that only had stairs - up one side and down the other.  Rolling suitcases didn’t work well on those steps.  People were really struggling dealing with it.  It felt good to be able to pick up my bag and my wife’s bag and just walk up the steps carrying them without any difficulty.<br />
• The work outs are short – you don’t have to spend your life in the gym to get great results<br />
• The work outs are varied and fun – you’ll never get bored with them.  You may dread them, but you won’t be bored<br />
• The work outs don’t require extensive equipment<br />
• The work outs are great for fat burning<br />
• The price of the program is right - free</p>
<p>What Is Fitness?</p>
<p>When most of us think of fitness, we think of aerobic fitness – distance runners and the like.  Some of us may think of strength as well, but rarely beyond that.</p>
<p>True fitness encompasses much more that those two aspects.  The coaches behind this program identified 10 aspects of fitness they wanted to help their athletes develop (by the way, they consider anyone doing their program an athlete).  Here are the aspects of fitness this program develops.  If your goal is optimum physical com¬petence, then all these general physical skills must be considered:</p>
<p>1. Cardiovascular/respiratory endur¬ance - The ability of body systems to gather, process, and deliver oxygen.</p>
<p>2. Stamina - The ability of body sys¬tems to process, deliver, store, and utilize energy.</p>
<p>3. Strength - The ability of a muscular unit, or combination of muscular units, to apply force.</p>
<p>4. Flexibility - the ability to maximize the range of motion at a given joint.</p>
<p>5. Power - The ability of a muscular unit, or combination of muscular units, to apply maximum force in minimum time.</p>
<p>6. Speed - The ability to minimize the time cycle of a repeated movement.</p>
<p>7. Coordination - The ability to com¬bine several distinct movement pat¬terns into a singular distinct move¬ment.</p>
<p>8. Agility - The ability to minimize transition time from one movement pattern to another.</p>
<p>9. Balance - The ability to control the placement of the body’s center of gravity in relation to its support base.</p>
<p>10. Accuracy - The ability to control movement in a given direction or at a given intensity.</p>
<p>Quite the list, don’t you think?  Obviously, most fitness programs don’t come close to addressing all of these physical skills.  How would you like to be the unique person that develops all of them?</p>
<p>Another reason I like this program is its efficiency.  You invest less time to get in better shape.  I won’t go into extensive details here, but the physiologic underpinnings of it are sound. </p>
<p>Extended periods (beyond 45 minutes or so) of aerobic effort actually become a form a chronic stress.  This shifts the hormonal balance of the body in a way that works against developing muscle mass and strength. </p>
<p>To see this effect, just compare the physiques of marathon runners and bicyclists to those of sprinters and basketball players.</p>
<p>After a warm up, most of these workouts are 20 minutes or less.  None are longer than 45 minutes or so.</p>
<p>Another plus is the workouts are highly varied.  That’s why it develops such broad fitness. </p>
<p>Not only are the workouts varied, but so are the exercises.  No matter what your fitness background, I’d be surprised if you don’t come across some exercises you’ve never heard of before when you start this program.</p>
<p>I’m sure this all sounds good.  It is.  Now it’s time to point out the potential problems.</p>
<p>This program is intense.  I love the program and really love the way I feel after a work out, but still find myself kind of avoiding starting a work out because I know how uncomfortable I’ll be half way through.</p>
<p>You get great results in such short workouts because they are intense.</p>
<p>This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t start the program. Modified versions have even been used with nursing home residents with great results.  It means you need to be prudent.  If you’re older and haven’t exercised in a while, you definitely need to see a physician before getting started.</p>
<p>If you’re already pretty fit from other programs, you need to be even more careful.  You just might be fit enough to get yourself in serious trouble.</p>
<p>Many of the routines place significant stress on multiple muscle groups simultaneously.  It rarely happens, but it is possible to exercise so strenuously that the muscle cells break down and release their protein into the blood stream.  The protein then travel through to the kidneys where it can plug them up and cause renal failure. </p>
<p>There have been about 5 cases of this reported in people doing these workouts (that’s 5 out of many 10’s of thousands of athletics doing the program).  People especially at risk are those who have a good aerobic base.  That base allows them to push themselves to a work load beyond which they’ve trained their muscles to handle.</p>
<p>Leaving your pride at the door and using common sense will prevent any problem.  Start easy and gradually dial in the intensity.</p>
<p>As I said, old folks in nursing homes have benefited from the program.  Whatever your fitness level, just go slow for the first several weeks as you get use to the routines and the exercises.  Then gradually build the intensity.  You’ll quickly see great results quickly.</p>
<p>Having said all that, here, at last, is the site so you can check it out:</p>
<p>  <a href="http://www.crossfit.com/">www.crossfit.com</a></p>
<p>The folks at Crossfit also make available a free copy of the Crossfit Journal.  This issue summarizes their definition and approach to fitness.  I highly recommend you download it, even if you don’t think you’ll try the program:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.crossfit.com/cf-download/CFJ-trial.pdf">http://www.crossfit.com/cf-download/CFJ-trial.pdf</a></p>
<p>The site may seem a little overwhelming at first.  You may not be certain where to start.  I must admit, it’s not the most intuitively laid out site I’ve come across.  But it certainly is one of the most content rich. </p>
<p>You’ll get used to the site as you use it.  For now just  check out the tabs and the FAQ’s and get a sense of what’s there.</p>
<p>In a week or so, I’ll give you a few tips on using the site and getting the most out of it.</p>
<p>If you have any comments, let me know at: <a href="mailto:jsphfm-jfm@yahoo.com">jsphfm-jfm@yahoo.com</a><br />
 
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		<title>Is Your Cell Phone Hurting You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 13:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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I just read a research study that has me a little concerned.  Physicians at an infertility clinic in Ohio reported an association between cell phone use and infertility in men.
They evaluated 361 men who were undergoing infertility investigation.  They excluded anyone with chronic problems known to affect sperm production.
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<p>I just read a research study that has me a little concerned.  Physicians at an infertility clinic in Ohio reported an association between cell phone use and infertility in men.</p>
<p>They evaluated 361 men who were undergoing infertility investigation.  They excluded anyone with chronic problems known to affect sperm production.</p>
<p>The men were divided into four groups depending on their average daily cell phone usage.  The groups were:<br />
• no use<br />
• less than 2 hours<br />
• 2 – 4 hours<br />
• more than 4 hours.</p>
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<p>The researchers then looked at factors like sperm count, microscopic appearance of the sperm, sperm motility and sperm viability in each group.</p>
<p>The results were a little disturbing. The more a man used a cell phone, the worse his sperm looked.</p>
<p>Now a study like this doesn’t prove cause and effect.  Still…  It does make you wonder.</p>
<p>Some of my colleagues in alternative medicine have worried about possible health hazards from cell phones for some time.  After all, they do emit a form of radiation and many of us have them on and in close proximity to our bodies for much of the day.  There haven’t been major studies definitely proving health risks, but that doesn’t mean they won’t show up down the road.</p>
<p>It presents a problem for me. I’m not ready to give up my cell phone.</p>
<p>I well remember what it was like to be a physician in the pre-cell phone days.  Being on call meant being near a phone.  I knew where every pay phone was within at least a 30 mile radius of my home.</p>
<p>I have a vivid memory of standing thigh-deep in snow at a phone by the side of a road during a snow storm, freezing and having trouble hearing because of the wind noise and the passing trucks.</p>
<p>My first portable phone was the size of a shoe box and had very spotty reception.  Even so, it was a great improvement over the pay phones.</p>
<p> It was marvelous to watch cell phone size decrease while performance increased.  When the first flip phone arrived, we knew we were in the Star Trek age.</p>
<p>I really can’t imagine going without a cell phone now.  I suspect you may be in the same position.  So what are we to do with information like that in the study I just told you about?</p>
<p>First, be aware that cell phone usage may be an issue and minimize it to the extent possible.</p>
<p>Your cell phone emits radiation searching for a tower even when you’re not talking, so keep it turned off if you don’t really need it on.</p>
<p>Keep your cell phone away from your body as much as possible.  Carry in a briefcase or leave it in a holder in your car or on your desk at work or home.</p>
<p>Using a speaker phone reduces your radiation exposure.  The sound quality varies, so when you buy a phone be sure it has speaker phone capabilities (most do currently) and check out its performance in the speaker phone mode.</p>
<p>Even if it works great, it’s not always practical to use a speaker phone - for example in public places.  A hands free headset is another alternative.</p>
<p>Wireless (Bluetooth) units have their own issues.   They communicate with the phone or other electronic device by sending  their own signal.  The signal strength is smaller than a cell phone emits, and it doesn’t emit it constantly.  A Bluetooth earpiece is an improvement, but it does emit radiation close to your ear.</p>
<p>A wired hands free ear piece produces minimal radiation, but purists argue that it still isn’t zero.</p>
<p>There is a hands free device on the market called Blue Tube that uses a hollow plastic tube to direct the sound to the ear.  This avoids having a wire or anything producing any level of radiation right next to your ear. </p>
<p>That sounds like a good idea, but I haven’t used one and have no idea how well it works.  However, as a physician I have used a sound transmitting device that relies on plastic tubes to transmit sound for years.  It’s called a stethoscope and it works quite well. </p>
<p>The Blue Tube units cost about $25 or $30.  I may get one just to try it out.  If I do, I’ll let you know how it goes.</p>
<p>Here’s the summary.  People hotly debate whether or not cell phone radiation poses any health hazard.  To date, large studies haven’t shown definite risks.  Critics claim these studies are flawed and biased by the interests of big industry.  </p>
<p>Studies like the one I told you about here aren’t proof of cause and effect, but they are concerning.  People opposed to cell phones point to such studies as evidence of the danger of cell phones.</p>
<p>I share their concern, but I’m not ready to give up my cell phone anytime soon – it’s just too convenient.</p>
<p>We often undertake risks to achieve a benefit.  Driving a car is one example.  The more you drive, the greater your risk of injury or death.   Most of us decide the benefits of using a car outweigh the risks.  We go ahead and drive, but reduce the risks as much as we can.  We use safety equipment and drive cautiously.</p>
<p>I think the same approach can be used here. </p>
<p>If you can live without a cell phone, great.  If not, follow the advice above to reduce your exposure while the science is being sorted out.</p>
<p>Reference:</p>
<p>Agarwal et al.  Effect of cell phone usage on semen analysis in men attending infertility clinic: An observational study.  Fertil Steril 2008 Jan; 89:124
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		<title>Protect Your Prostate With This Safe Supplement</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 21:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
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	<category>Diet &amp; Nutrition</category>
	<category>supplements</category>
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You may have heard about lycopenes before.  These are compounds found mainly in brightly colored vegetables and especially in tomatoes.  There have been studies in the past suggesting that men who ate several servings of tomato products a week had a lower risk of prostate problems than those who didn’t. 
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<p>You may have heard about lycopenes before.  These are compounds found mainly in brightly colored vegetables and especially in tomatoes.  There have been studies in the past suggesting that men who ate several servings of tomato products a week had a lower risk of prostate problems than those who didn’t. </p>
<p>Now there’s a study from Germany showing even stronger proof of the benefit of adding lycopene to your diet.</p>
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<p>Benign prostate hyperplasia is a condition in which the cells of the prostate are starting to become a little abnormal.  They aren’t cancerous yet, but it’s considered a precancerous condition.  Men who have it are at and increased risk of cancer in the future.</p>
<p>In the study, forty men who had this condition (proven by biopsy of their prostate) were divided into two groups.  One received 15 mg of lycopene daily in a capsule for six months.  The other group received a look-alike placebo.</p>
<p>After only six months, the results were astounding.</p>
<p>As you probably know rising PSA (prostate specific antigen) levels can reflect developing prostate cancer.  In the group receiving the lycopene, PSA levels decreased.  There was no change in the placebo group.</p>
<p>The researchers measured size of the prostate in all the men by both digital rectal exam and trans-anal ultrasound (women who complain about mammograms might want to consider how the prostate is examined).  Prostate enlargement by both measures progressed in the placebo group.  Prostate size stabilized in the lycopene group.</p>
<p>Very importantly, the symptoms of prostate disease, as measured by the International Prostate Symptom Score questionnaire, improved more in the lycopene group than in the control.</p>
<p>All in all, these are very impressive findings, especially since they were achieved using an extremely safe dietary supplement.</p>
<p>This study was done in men who already had a dangerous situation developing in their prostate.  Why wait ‘till you have that problem?  I recommend getting lycopene in your diet now.</p>
<p>You can take a supplement like the studied used, but why not get it from food?  One cup of tomato juice, or a tomato-based vegetable juice (like V-8) has over 20 grams of lycopene – more than the 15 used in the study.</p>
<p>Here’s what I suggest.  Keep low-salt or no-salt tomato juice in your fridge.  If you want it do be even better, use an organic brand.  Most mornings have a cup of it with a teaspoon of horseradish (horse radish is high in cancer-fighting compounds known as glycosinolates) and a dash of Morton’s potassium chloride salt replacement.</p>
<p>Or take the pill.  Either way, add this prostate-protecting nutrient to your diet.</p>
<p>Lycopene Inhibits Disease Progression in Patients with Benign Prostate Hyperplasia1,2<br />
Silke Schwarz3,4,</p>
<p>J. Nutr. 138:49-53, January 2008<br />
 
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		<title>How Real Is Your Reality?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 21:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
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	<category>General</category>
	<category>Positive Psychology</category>
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Here&#8217;s a concept for you to consider.
Our experience of the world isn’t what’s out there; it’s what we perceive to be out there.  That means our reality can be quite arbitrary because we sense the outside world through filters.  These filters exist beneath our conscious mind.  Most people aren&#8217;t even aware they&#8217;re there.  Yet they [...]]]></description>
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<p>Here&#8217;s a concept for you to consider.</p>
<p>Our experience of the world isn’t what’s out there; it’s what we perceive to be out there.  That means our reality can be quite arbitrary because we sense the outside world through filters.  These filters exist beneath our conscious mind.  Most people aren&#8217;t even aware they&#8217;re there.  Yet they determine just what we perceive and therefore deterimine our reality.</p>
<p>We need these filters – we couldn’t possibly keep track of all the information coming in otherwise.</p>
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<p>For example, if I asked you what your right foot feels like right now, you could tell me.  It feels warm or cool or you shoe’s too tight or it’s comfortable or whatever.  The point is you could immediately tell me.  Yet a moment before I asked, you weren’t aware of your foot.</p>
<p>How did that happen?  What changed?  Is there a little switch in your brain that turned on the nerves to your foot when I asked the question so you could answer it?</p>
<p>No, of course not.  The nerves in your foot, and everywhere else, send a constant stream of information to your brain.  That information gets filtered out at a pre-conscious level unless you need it – I ask a question or you step on a nail.</p>
<p>The same thing goes on with all your other senses and perceptions.  There&#8217;s  a flood of information coming in.  Only a small bit that the filters pass along reaches conscious awareness.</p>
<p>This works at a higher level of functioning as well.  This filtering is why, for example, you buy a certain make and model of a car and then start to notice all the other cars like it on the road. </p>
<p>I used to drive a green 1994 Intrepid.  I still notice green Intrepids of that model when I see them. </p>
<p>The cars like yours were always there – it just didn’t mean anything to you until you had one of them.  Before you bought the car, ones like it were filtered out.  When you bought your car, your filter changed and you began to see them.</p>
<p>As I began, this means your experience of life isn’t as much determined by what’s out there as by what you perceive to be out there.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s something else: your perceptions may well be distorted by your filters. </p>
<p>A real life example of this is a lunch my brother Chris had with a client in New York.  They had a lousy waiter.  The client was convinced they received such terrible service because he was Jewish.  He saw the waiter as anti-Semitic. </p>
<p>Chris just thought the waiter was a frustrated aspiring actor not at all into his job as waiter.</p>
<p>Which perception was accurate?  Who knows?  We do know that two men sitting at the same table at the same time with the same external events had different experiences based on their filters.</p>
<p>Also, we can be pretty sure that that lunch wasn’t the first time Chris’s client saw life through the filter of anti-Semitism.  Anti-Semitism exists, but it probably doesn’t exist in as many places as he sees it.  He might be able to improve the quality of his life if he adjusted his filter somewhat.</p>
<p>There’s a very effective form of psychological therapy called cognitive restructuring that does just that.  It’s based on the premise that most emotional distress arises from distorted perceptions and that if you clear up the distortions, the distress goes away.</p>
<p>I’ll teach some cognitive restructuring techniques in future notes.  For now I just want you to realize that these filters exist, that there’s a possibility they might be distorted, and, most importantly, that you can change them.</p>
<p>Dr. Bruce Lipton has a fun exercise at his talks.  He has the audience select a pair of glasses with either green or red lenses.  Then he shows a slide.  Depending on which color glasses the audience member is wearing, they see either a friendly cottage and the word “love” or a scary haunted house and the word “fear”. </p>
<p>What they see depends on which set of filters they use.  When they change filters, they change their experience.</p>
<p>Most of us develop our filters haphazardly as we go through life.  We pick them up from family, the media, early experiences and any number of other sources.  We never examine them for accuracy or usefulness. </p>
<p>Now you’re different.  You know they exist.  That’s the first step to taking control of them and using them to give you the life you desire and deserve.</p>
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